Fear of failing at love can cripple you to your past. I know how it is to keep losing time after time, to the point that you form an opinion in your mind that this is just how it’s going to be.
1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
You keep losing because you haven’t quite figured out the formula to winning. Winners never quit so I suggest that you change your perspective on this thing called love.
There is nothing wrong with you but there is something wrong with the opinion that you have formed about yourself. You are a Queen in the Kingdom and God has set you apart to prepare you for what you’re praying for.
You can be so consumed with frustration that you become distracted by what you don’t want. Before I figured out the winning formula, I was just like you. I was so frustrated by continuously kissing frogs, losers and demonic decoys that I kept attracting what I didn’t want.
I had such a fear for losing that it kept crippling me. My greatest fears continuously chased me down to the point that I began to expect them to manifest. You know what I mean, the same kind of man with a different name. Before a man would approach me, I would say “here we go again” lol.
One day I was having a conversation with God, complaining about my love experiences and he gave me a simple answer. You must become what you’re praying for, a man is your mirror so if you don’t like what you see it requires you to change your reflection. Ouch moment, I want you to be encouraged and work on healing your mind from negative thinking.
This is the winning formula that manifested my King.
Abundant blessings overflowing to you!