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Fear Of Failing At Love

Fear of failing at love can cripple you to your past. I know how it is to keep losing time after time, to the point that you form an opinion in your mind that this is just how it’s going to be. 

1 John 4:18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

You keep losing because you haven’t quite figured out the formula to winning. Winners never quit so I suggest that you change your perspective on this thing called love. 

There is nothing wrong with you but there is something wrong with the opinion that  you have formed about yourself. You are a Queen in the Kingdom and God has set you apart to prepare you for what you’re praying for. 

You can be so consumed with frustration that you become distracted by what you don’t want. Before I figured out the winning formula, I was just like you. I was so frustrated by continuously kissing frogs, losers and demonic decoys that I kept attracting what I didn’t want. 

I had such a fear for losing that it kept crippling me. My greatest fears continuously chased me down to the point that I began to expect them to manifest. You know what I mean, the same kind of man with a different name. Before a man would approach me, I would say “here we go again” lol. 

One day I was having a conversation with God, complaining about my love experiences and he gave me a simple answer. You must become what you’re praying for, a man is your mirror so if you don’t like what you see it requires you to change your reflection. Ouch moment, I want you to be encouraged and work on healing your mind from negative thinking.

This is the winning formula that manifested my King.

Abundant blessings overflowing to you!

Coach Misty

June 1, 2021

Single Wife
Soul Work

Psalms 142:7 Set me free from my prison, that I may praise your name. Then the righteous will gather about me because of your goodness to me.

We are a Spirit that lives in a body and posses a Soul.

Your Soul Consists Of Your Mind Will Intellect & Emotions. 

  • Mind: 1 Corinthians 2:16 For, “Who can know the LORD’s thoughts? Who knows enough to teach him?” But we understand these things, for we have the mind of Christ.
  • Will 
  • The Heart Controls Your Intellect & Emotions

Proverbs 4:23 

Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.

Jeremiah 17:9 “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?

Romans 7:21 So this is the principle I have discovered: When I want to do good, evil is right there with me.

  • Intellect
  • Emotions

If the soul doesn’t receive the updates from the Spirit, your soul will never grow/Increase or prosper.

The spirit of God in you is perfect, the soul is imperfect & blemished.

Your thinking will eventually show up in your living. 

As a man thinketh in his heart So is he.

5 Ways We Think In Error

  • High Expectation off of the wrong information.
  • High Expectation off of someone else’s situation.
  • Faith without wisdom is foolishness.
  • Your mouth & heart must work together in order for Manifestation to take place.
  • You can’t get what you don’t understand.

Philippians 2:1-3, 4:9

*Mind Of Christ *

3 Steps Of Denial:

  • You ignore the truth about real facts.
  • You deny the fact that you need help.
  • You’re not willing to pay the price or make the adjustments because of what it will cost you.

5 Ways To Prosper Your Soul

Soul Food

  • Read The Word Hebrews 4:12
  • Meditation Joshua 1:8-9, John 8:32
  • Prayer 
  • Human Guide, Significant Person (Pastor, Mentor, Coach)
  • Holy Spirit

Illegal Marriages occur by having sex out of wedlock. The spirit of LUST drives your flesh to keep you in sin. It operates together with PRIDE, Deception & Independence. 

Sex is a gift God gives to married people for their mutual enjoyment. It’s in the Bible, Proverbs 5:18-19, TLB. “Let your manhood be a blessing; rejoice in the wife of your youth. Let her charms and tender embrace satisfy you. Let her love alone fill you with delight.”

Hebrews 13:4, NIV. “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure


” I Corinthians 7:3,4, NIV says, “The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.”

God designed sex as part of the unique relationship of marriage. It’s in the Bible, I Corinthians 7:5, TLB. “So do not refuse these rights to each other. The only exception to this rule would be the agreement of both husband and wife to refrain from the rights of marriage for a limited time, so that they can give themselves more completely to prayer. Afterwards, they should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt them because of their lack of self-control.”

Deliverance starts at the altar and ends at the feet of Jesus.

June 1, 2021

Grown Woman
Growing Through Irritation

James 3:14-15 But if you harbor bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast in it or deny the truth. Such wisdom does not come from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every evil practice.

I truly know all about growing through seasons of disappointment, without understanding why there is a delay in your life. You must learn how to navigate through the times and seasons of your life, that is putting a demand on your growth. If we can be honest with each other, it’s in these moments that jealousy tries to plant seeds in your heart by comparing your life with your friends, family, and admirers that are already where you want to be in life. The truth is you need to ask God for wisdom, increase your faith and works, or simply stop going through life and grow through life.

Today is the the day that you tell yourself the truth, “I’ve become jealous about those that are already where I want to be in my life.”

Stop comparing your life to everyone else and know that your life will become beautiful in time…

Ecclesiastes 3:11 Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end.

1. Your mind & heart must agree with the direction that God is leading your life
2. The Holy Spirit is your GPS listen for directions
3. Guard your heart (The word is your shield from sin)
4. You must be led by the spirit in order to walk by faith & not by sight
5. Walk in obedience to Gods will, his ways & his word
6. Follow the word, he is leading you toward the promise of a beautiful life in Christ
7. Tighten your circle Psalms 1

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Growing Through Motherhood
Growing Through Co Parenting

Growing Through Co-Parenting

Segregated-separated or divided 

Mark 3:25-27
And if a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand. And if Satan rise up against himself, and be divided, he cannot stand, but hath an end.No man can enter into a strong man’s house, and spoil his goods, except he will first bind the strong man; and then he will spoil his house.

I dedicate this wisdom to Single Mother’s who are struggling between cutting the father out of a child’s life because of “Baby Momma-Daddy Drama,” lacking mental, physical, emotional, spiritual or financial support, or being left to clean up the mess from their child’s disappointment.

Do your best to be the peacemaker and take a L now, this will save your child from entertaining losers later.

As much as you know that he may lack character, your children will see him only as daddy who can do no wrong, until they mature to a place to discern on their own.

Don’t try to control his house from your house, if he’s not mature enough to have a healthy conversation, it’s best for you to pray it through.

AS much as you need a break, never put your children in harms way. If there is abuse, addiction, abandonment issues, seek after legal aid to protect your children from harm and danger.

If a woman/wife is involved, do your best to create a healthy relationship with her, she will be sowing seeds into your child.

Let’s Get To The Root Of The Issue
• Children are a gift from God
• Use discernment as well as wise counsel.
• Remove your heartbreak struggles from your parenting decision making.
• Forgive, forgive, forgive, & keep forgiving.
• Love like Christ
• Pray without ceasing 
• Get a mediator
• The child’s needs must be put before anyone.
• Grow through it

May 29, 2021